Film

The Myth of the American Sleepover

Name: The Myth of the American Sleepover
Genre: Romance, Comedy, Drama
Released: 2011
Cast: Claire Sloma, Marlon Morton, Amanda Bauer, Brett Jacobsen, Nikita Ramsey

Coming-of-age

A Detroit suburban rite-of-passage film about four teenagers chasing connection and possibility on the final summer weekend. Shot with naturalistic warmth and genuine affection for its characters, it captures the specific ache of youth—the feeling that everything matters enormously and nothing's quite working out. Ideal for anyone who remembers what it felt like to be seventeen.

TMDb rating

3.0

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