Film

The Romantics

Name: The Romantics
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2010
Cast: Katie Holmes, Anna Paquin, Josh Duhamel, Dianna Agron, Adam Brody

A wedding-weekend ensemble drama about seven college friends reuniting for a ceremony that becomes a pressure cooker of old attractions, jealousies, and the question of whether anyone truly moves on. It's intimate rather than sweeping, pitched at that exact register where adult friendships start to feel precarious. Bittersweet, a little claustrophobic, best if you've felt the specific sting of watching someone you loved marry someone else.

TMDb rating

2.4

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