Film

The Hating Game

Name: The Hating Game
Genre: Drama, Comedy, Romance
Released: 2021
Cast: Lucy Hale, Austin Stowell, Corbin Bernsen, Sakina Jaffrey, Damon Daunno

Romantic comedy
Light-hearted

A romantic comedy about two executive assistants locked in competitive rivalry at a publishing house, where every barb and power play masks something deeper. Snappy, breezy, anchored by genuine chemistry between leads who actually seem to enjoy sparring. It knows exactly what it is: comfort viewing for people who like their romance with teeth.

TMDb rating

3.6

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