Film

The 40 Year-Old Virgin

Name: The 40 Year-Old Virgin
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Released: 2005
Cast: Steve Carell, Catherine Keener, Paul Rudd, Romany Malco, Seth Rogen

A goofy, surprisingly tender comedy about Andy Stitzer, a 40-year-old electronics-store clerk whose stunted love life becomes his coworkers' pet project. Steve Carell anchors the raunch with real sweetness, so the gross-out gags never curdle into meanness. It's for anyone who wants a filthy comedy with an actual heart underneath, not just a shock-a-minute machine.

TMDb rating

6.4

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