Film

Intimate Strangers

Name: Intimate Strangers
Genre: Drama, Comedy
Released: 2018
Cast: Yoo Hai-jin, Cho Jin-woong, Lee Seo-jin, Yum Jung-ah, Kim Ji-soo

Social drama

A Korean ensemble comedy-drama where six old friends reunite for a weekend and play a dangerous game of truth-telling. It's warm and funny until it isn't, peeling back layers of resentment, desire, and regret with real bite. For anyone who's ever wondered what their friends really think of them.

TMDb rating

3.6

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy talky ensemble comedies where the laughs come from people cornered by their own habits, and the sting arrives slowly enough to make you wince and laugh in the same breath.

Skip it if you want something light, because the comedy keeps curdling into discomfort and its unease lingers long after the laughs have faded.

What it asks of you: Around two hours, mostly conversation at one table, with jabs and laughs arriving close together and its quieter beats asking for your full attention.

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