Film

Wotakoi: Love is Hard for Otaku

Name: Wotakoi: Love is Hard for Otaku
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Released: 2020
Cast: Mitsuki Takahata, Kento Yamazaki, Takumi Saitoh, Nanao, Jiro Sato

A live-action romantic comedy about two office workers who've been hiding their otaku obsessions from colleagues until they discover each other's secret. It's a breezy, affectionate film that celebrates nerd culture without judgment, with chemistry between leads and genuine laughs about the small mortifications of being a fan in a corporate world.

TMDb rating

3.3

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