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Monsoon Wedding

Mira Nair's ensemble comedy-drama follows one overstretched Delhi family through the week before a wedding, as old flames, imported grooms, and one buried family secret jostle for space between the marigolds. It's warm, hectic, funny, and occasionally quietly devastating — a film that loves its characters too much to let any of them off easy. For anyone who likes their weddings loud and their families complicated.

TMDb rating6.8

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The template for ensemble wedding comedy — overlapping romances, disastrous toasts, and a whole cast finding themselves at the altar of someone else's day.

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This is the ancestor of the modern ensemble wedding film — its sprawling, multi-strand structure is exactly the machine Monsoon Wedding runs, just aimed at a very different, more savage kind of comedy.

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