Film

Four Weddings and a Funeral

Name: Four Weddings and a Funeral
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 1994
Cast: Hugh Grant, Andie MacDowell, Kristin Scott Thomas, Simon Callow, James Fleet

A commitment-phobic Englishman and his tight circle of friends stumble through a string of nuptials — and one unexpected funeral — while he works out whether the woman he keeps colliding with is the one he's spent the whole film avoiding. Witty, quintessentially awkward, and packed with disaster speeches and rain-soaked confessions, it's the film that made British social floundering irresistibly romantic. For anyone who wants their swoon served with proper embarrassment.

TMDb rating

6.8

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