Film

Fools Rush In

Name: Fools Rush In
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 1997
Cast: Matthew Perry, Salma Hayek Pinault, Jon Tenney, Carlos Gómez, Tomas Milian

A Vegas one-night stand becomes a shotgun wedding in this 1997 romantic comedy about two people from entirely different worlds—a straight-laced white guy and a passionate Mexican-American woman—learning to navigate marriage, family expectations, and cultural identity. It's warm and earnest, occasionally clumsy, genuinely interested in its characters' differences rather than mining them for easy laughs.

TMDb rating

3.3

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