Film

Eat Drink Man Woman

Name: Eat Drink Man Woman
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 1994
Cast: Lung Sihung, Yang Kuei-mei, Jacklyn Wu Chien-Lien, Wang Yu-wen, Sylvia Chang

Ang Lee's early masterpiece is really three love stories disguised as a family drama, all orbiting a father whose feelings come out through food rather than words. Watching it is like being invited to an elaborate, slightly tense Sunday dinner where everyone's secrets are the main course. Funny, sad, gorgeously shot — best for anyone who thinks meals are never just meals.

TMDb rating

7.6

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