Film

Runaway Bride

Name: Runaway Bride
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Released: 1999
Cast: Julia Roberts, Richard Gere, Joan Cusack, Héctor Elizondo, Rita Wilson

Romantic comedy
Comedy
Light-hearted

Runaway Bride is a frothy romantic comedy where Julia Roberts plays a woman who's left three grooms at the altar, and Richard Gere is the cynical journalist sent to cover her fourth wedding. It's fundamentally about two people learning who they actually are beneath the versions they've performed for others. Charming, lightly funny, designed to make you feel good about love despite all evidence to the contrary.

TMDb rating

3.0

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy old-fashioned screwball romance, where sparring leads carry the plot and the comedy comes from characters trying to outwit each other and themselves.

Skip it if you want sharp, cynical edges or a fresh take on the genre, since this one stays cozy, predictable in its beats, and happy to let the charm do the heavy lifting.

What it asks of you: Around two hours of easygoing, light viewing with no real darkness, and it rewards you for settling in rather than asking for close attention.

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