Film
Romantic Comedy
Elizabeth Sankey's *Romantic Comedy* dissects the genre's tropes, fantasies, and contradictions through interviews with critics and filmmakers. It's a love letter and a reckoning—funny, thoughtful, and occasionally uncomfortable—about what rom-coms taught us to expect from romance and why we keep watching anyway.
Should you watch it?
Watch it if you love rom-coms enough to argue with them, and enjoy a personal essay that turns its critical eye on your own romantic habits and the films that shaped them.
Skip it if you want a tightly plotted film or a neutral overview of the genre, since this is a looser, more diary-like wander that leans on its director's own feelings.
What it asks of you: Expect a brisk 78 minutes of interviews, clips and song breaks, asking you to stay curious and talk back to the screen rather than settle in and be swept along.
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People
Cast
Jessica BardenHerself
Charlie ShackletonHimself- Simran HansHerself
- Laura SnapesHerself
- Cameron CookHimself
- Brodie LancasterHimself
- Anne T. DonahueHerself
- Eleanor McDowallHerself
Directing
- Elizabeth SankeyDirector
Writing
- Elizabeth SankeyWriter
Production
- Chiara VenturaProducer
- Jeremy WarmsleyProducer
- Oskar PimlottProducer