Film

Boys on the Side

Name: Boys on the Side
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 1995
Cast: Whoopi Goldberg, Mary-Louise Parker, Drew Barrymore, Matthew McConaughey, James Remar

Social drama

A road movie about three women—a nightclub singer, a real estate agent living with AIDS, and a woman fleeing abuse—who drive cross-country and discover they need each other more than they expected. It's warm and funny without minimizing real pain, grounded in character rather than plot twists. For anyone who loves films where friendship becomes the whole story.

TMDb rating

3.2

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