Film

Big Fan

Name: Big Fan
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Crime
Released: 2009
Cast: Patton Oswalt, Kevin Corrigan, Michael Rapaport, Marcia Jean Kurtz, Serafina Fiore

Drama

Big Fan is a deadpan comedy-drama about a 35-year-old parking attendant whose life revolves entirely around the New York Giants. When he encounters his hero in real life, his carefully constructed fantasy collides with reality in ways that are both darkly funny and genuinely tragic. It's uncomfortable, unsentimental, and weirdly compassionate about the desperate ways people find meaning.

TMDb rating

3.0

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you love grubby, sad-sack characters whose obsessions curdle into something uncomfortable, and you're happy to sit with a funny, lonely man's self-deception as it darkens.

Skip it if you want a breezy sports comedy, since the fandom jokes are only the surface and the mood turns heavy and bleak fast.

What it asks of you: Roughly ninety minutes, unhurried in its middle stretch, with long stretches of him drifting through his routines and talk, so patience counts more than momentum.

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