Film

A Single Man

Name: A Single Man
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2009
Cast: Colin Firth, Julianne Moore, Nicholas Hoult, Matthew Goode, Jon Kortajarena

Tom Ford's directorial debut turns Christopher Isherwood's novel into something closer to a fashion shoot for grief: every room, cardigan and cigarette is lit like a still life. Colin Firth plays a British professor moving through one ordinary-seeming day in 1962 LA, quietly resolved to end it. Gorgeous, mannered, and genuinely devastating if you let it work on you rather than just admiring the furniture.

TMDb rating

7.3

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The Danish Girl2015no page yet

Another period piece built around immaculate costuming and a marriage reshaped by an identity that can't stay hidden, if you want more of that particular tasteful ache.

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