Film

Oasis

Name: Oasis
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2002
Cast: Sul Kyung-gu, Moon So-ri, Ahn Nae-sang, Ryoo Seung-wan, Son Byung-ho

A devastating South Korean film about a man released from prison who becomes involved with a woman with cerebral palsy. Director Yoon-ho Hong refuses easy sentiment, instead building an intimate, physically frank portrait of two people pushed to society's margins finding each other. It's tender and unflinching—sometimes within the same scene. Essential viewing and genuinely difficult.

TMDb rating

3.9

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you want a love story that stays with characters society has written off, where tenderness and cruelty sit side by side and the filmmaker trusts you to sit with the discomfort.

Skip it if you need your romance clean and your sympathies settled; this one is raw, often painful to watch, and its handling of disability and its lead's conduct will test you throughout.

What it asks of you: Its shape is slow and observational, long unhurried scenes with little music to cue your feelings, and patience through awkward silences and abrupt shifts in tone.

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