Film

Design for Living

Name: Design for Living
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Released: 1933
Cast: Fredric March, Miriam Hopkins, Gary Cooper, Edward Everett Horton, Franklin Pangborn

Ernst Lubitsch turns Noël Coward's play into something lighter than air and sharper than it looks: two men, one woman, and a shrug at monogamy that still feels startling for 1933. It's fast, frothy, and utterly unbothered by guilt — Pre-Code Hollywood at its most gleefully permissive, right before the censors clamped down. Best for anyone who likes romance witty rather than weepy.

TMDb rating

7.1

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Cary Grant and Irene Dunne divorcing and re-seducing each other with the same rapid-fire, amoral wit that makes Design for Living sing.

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Barrymore and Lombard tearing into each other with theatrical fury — a comedy about people too dramatic to just be happy, matching the era's giddy anarchy.

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