Film

An Affair to Remember

Name: An Affair to Remember
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 1957
Cast: Cary Grant, Deborah Kerr, Richard Denning, Neva Patterson, Cathleen Nesbitt

An Affair to Remember is the definitive 1950s Hollywood weepie: Cary Grant and Deborah Kerr play two engaged people who fall for each other on a transatlantic crossing and make a pact to reunite in six months. It's glossy, unhurried, and unembarrassed by its own sentiment — a film built entirely around the ache of a promise you don't know will be kept. Perfect for a rainy afternoon and a box of tissues.

TMDb rating

7.4

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