Film

The Woman Next Door

Name: The Woman Next Door
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 1981
Cast: Gérard Depardieu, Fanny Ardant, Henri Garcin, Michèle Baumgartner, Roger Van Hool

Truffaut's 1981 meditation on desire and restraint: two former lovers become neighbors with their current spouses, and the film watches what happens when proximity resurrects the past. It's intimate, unsentimental, and gorgeously shot—a portrait of attraction as both irresistible and ultimately hollow.

TMDb rating

3.6

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