Film

Won't You Be My Neighbor?

Name: Won't You Be My Neighbor?
Genre: Documentary
Released: 2018
Cast: Margaret Whitmer, Tom Junod, Joanne Rogers, Jim Rogers, Max King

This is the story of a man who spent thirty years talking directly, unhurriedly, to children about anger, death and self-worth — and somehow made television better for it. Morgan Neville's documentary is warm without being soft, mixing archive footage with testimony from friends and family to ask what happened to that kind of patience. Good for anyone who needs reminding that gentleness can be radical.

TMDb rating

8.0

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