Film

What Did the Lady Forget?

Name: What Did the Lady Forget?
Genre: Drama, Comedy
Released: 1937
Cast: Sumiko Kurishima, Tatsuo Saitō, Michiko Kuwano, Shūji Sano, Takeshi Sakamoto

Drama

A 1937 Japanese comedy about a strait-laced professor and his rigid wife forced to navigate the chaos of Setsuko, a rebellious niece from Osaka who smokes, drinks, and defies every social convention they hold sacred. It's a gently satirical, fast-moving farce that uses domestic friction to explore the clash between old and new Japan. For anyone charmed by pre-war comedy's lightness and observational humour about generational difference.

TMDb rating

3.2

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