Film

Father and Son

Name: Father and Son
Genre: Drama
Released: 2003
Cast: Andrei Shchetinin, Aleksei Neymyshev, Aleksandr Razbash, Fyodor Lavrov, Marina Zasukhina

Drama
Slow-burning

Sokurov's 2003 film is a hypnotic, painterly meditation on male intimacy and the terror of separation. A father and son in St. Petersburg navigate the arrival of romantic love and military conscription, their bond tested by the outside world's demands. It's formal, oblique, and emotionally devastating—for viewers patient with ambiguity and visual poetry over plot.

TMDb rating

2.9

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