Film

Mother

Name: Mother
Genre: Crime, Drama, Mystery
Released: 2009
Cast: Kim Hye-ja, Won Bin, Jin Goo, Yoon Je-moon, Jeon Mi-seon

A single mother's fierce, unblinking devotion becomes the engine of a murder investigation when her intellectually disabled son is accused of killing a schoolgirl. Bong Joon-ho turns a small-town whodunit into something stranger and sadder: half thriller, half meditation on how far love can twist a person. Kim Hye-ja's performance holds it together — tender, terrifying, impossible to look away from.

TMDb rating

7.7

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