Film

Cousin, Cousine

Name: Cousin, Cousine
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Released: 1975
Cast: Marie-Christine Barrault, Victor Lanoux, Marie-France Pisier, Guy Marchand, Ginette Garcin

Drama
Light-hearted

A French romantic comedy about two married strangers who meet at a wedding and develop an emotionally intimate friendship that unsettles their spouses. It's light but clever, built on chemistry and social observation rather than plot mechanics. For anyone who enjoys watching attraction simmer beneath restraint, or who misses when romantic films trusted conversation over spectacle.

TMDb rating

3.1

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