Film

Bob & Carol & Ted & Alice

Name: Bob & Carol & Ted & Alice
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 1969
Cast: Natalie Wood, Robert Culp, Elliott Gould, Dyan Cannon, Horst Ebersberg

Social drama

A 1969 comedy-drama about two couples navigating desire, honesty, and the limits of modern marriage after one pair returns from therapy full of newfound wisdom. It's simultaneously funny and uncomfortable, capturing a specific moment when America was anxiously rewriting its own rulebook. Perfect for anyone curious about how differently we thought about sex and monogamy fifty years ago.

TMDb rating

3.1

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