Film

A Nos Amours

Name: A Nos Amours
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 1983
Cast: Sandrine Bonnaire, Maurice Pialat, Christophe Odent, Dominique Besnehard, Cyril Collard

Drama

Pialat's debut follows a restless 15-year-old girl navigating adolescent desire and family chaos in early-80s Paris. Raw and unsentimental, it captures the texture of teenage sexuality without judgment or exploitation—flesh and feeling matter equally. For viewers ready for cinema that refuses easy answers about growing up.

TMDb rating

3.4

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