Film

The Notebook

Name: The Notebook
Genre: Drama, War
Released: 2013
Cast: András Gyémánt, László Gyémánt, Piroska Molnár, Ulrich Thomsen, Ulrich Matthes

Other titles called The Notebook: the 2004 film.

Drama
Very dark

A haunting Hungarian war film following two brothers raised by a merciless grandmother in a border village during WWII. It's a portrait of childhood corrupted by circumstance—darkly funny, visually stunning, deeply unsettling. For viewers drawn to unflinching examinations of how brutality shapes young lives.

TMDb rating

3.3

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