Film

Splendor

Name: Splendor
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Released: 1999
Cast: Kathleen Robertson, Johnathon Schaech, Matt Keeslar, Kelly Macdonald, Eric Mabius

Romantic comedy
Comedy
Light-hearted

A romantic comedy about a woman in LA juggling multiple lovers at once, trying to figure out what she actually wants. It's genuinely silly in places, occasionally smarter about desire and commitment than it has any right to be, and entirely unconcerned with moral judgment. For people who like their romance messy, their comedy warm, and their 90s indie sensibility intact.

TMDb rating

3.1

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