Film

Same Time, Next Year

Name: Same Time, Next Year
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 1978
Cast: Alan Alda, Ellen Burstyn, Ivan Bonar, Bernie Kuby, Cosmo Sardo

A filmed Broadway two-hander: Alan Alda and Ellen Burstyn play strangers who begin a one-weekend-a-year affair that outlasts fashions, wars, and their own marriages. Told in five leaps forward, it's really a comedy about how much a person can change while their heart stays exactly where it was. Talky, tender, funny in a wistful way — for people who like actors more than plot.

TMDb rating

6.5

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