Film

The Way We Were

Name: The Way We Were
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 1973
Cast: Barbra Streisand, Robert Redford, Bradford Dillman, Lois Chiles, Patrick O'Neal

The Way We Were is Hollywood's most bittersweet ode to incompatible love — Streisand's fierce idealist and Redford's golden charmer collide across decades of politics, ambition and compromise they can never quite reconcile. It's glamorous, aching and unapologetically nostalgic, with a title song engineered to wreck you before the credits even finish. For anyone who's loved someone impossible to keep, and mourned it beautifully.

TMDb rating

7.0

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