Film

I Was a Male War Bride

Name: I Was a Male War Bride
Genre: Comedy, Romance, War
Released: 1949
Cast: Cary Grant, Ann Sheridan, Marion Marshall, Randy Stuart, Bill Neff

Cary Grant plays a dashing French army officer who marries American WAC lieutenant Ann Sheridan in postwar Germany, then discovers the only legal way home is to qualify as a 'war bride' — which means paperwork, humiliation, and eventually a dress. Howard Hawks turns bureaucratic absurdity into slapstick, and Grant, usually so suave, spends the back half of the film magnificently undignified. Funny, a little dated, oddly sweet.

TMDb rating

6.9

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