Film

Harriet the Spy

Name: Harriet the Spy
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Family
Released: 1996
Cast: Michelle Trachtenberg, Gregory Smith, Vanessa Lee Chester, Rosie O'Donnell, J. Smith-Cameron

Coming-of-age

A spirited sixth-grader's secret spy notebook gets exposed, turning her classmates against her and forcing her to reckon with the consequences of her sharp observations. It's warm, funny, and genuinely interested in how kids navigate friendship, honesty, and growing up—neither sappy nor cynical. For anyone who loved being nosy and still does.

TMDb rating

3.1

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy a sharp, slightly prickly kid's-eye view of small-town friendships, where the comedy comes from a child's deadpan notebook observations and the sadness is taken seriously.

Skip it if the pace is unhurried and the mood gentle, so if you want a brisk plot with big set pieces, its 101 minutes may drag like a long recess.

What it asks of you: its shape is episodic and conversational, a series of small scenes and diary-style asides that reward patience more than close attention.

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