Film
Days of Waiting: The Life & Art of Estelle Ishigo
- Biopic
- Slow-burning
A 28-minute documentary about Estelle Ishigo, a white woman who chose to be interned alongside her Japanese American husband during WWII rather than abandon him. Through her art and writings, it's an intimate portrait of solidarity, sacrifice, and the cost of principle. For anyone grappling with American history, loyalty under pressure, or how one person's choices ripple through time.
Should you watch it?
Watch it if you care about wartime history told through one stubborn, observant woman's own sketches and letters, and you like documentaries that let a life's art speak as loudly as the archive footage.
Skip it if you want a sweeping, wide-angle account of the internment camps; this is a short, intimate portrait of one person, and its focus is narrow by design.
What it asks of you: Half an hour, quiet and reflective, with a single voice carrying most of it. You'll need to sit with pictures and private papers more than with plot or argument.
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People
Cast
- Dorothy StroupSelf - Narrator
Directing
- Steven OkazakiDirector
Writing
- Estelle Peck IshigoNovel
- Steven OkazakiWriter
Production
- Steven OkazakiProducer
- Zand GeeProducer