Film

A Man Called Ove

Name: A Man Called Ove
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 2015
Cast: Rolf Lassgård, Bahar Pars, Filip Berg, Ida Engvoll, Tobias Almborg

A Swedish tragicomedy about the neighbourhood's most exacting rule-enforcer, a man whose grief has calcified into administrative fury. Flashback and present tense weave together, moving between the wry comedy of a man measuring parking violations and the quiet devastation of the life that made him this way. Sentimental and unafraid of it — for anyone who wants comfort viewing with real weight underneath.

TMDb rating

7.6

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