Television series

I May Destroy You

Name: I May Destroy You
Genre: Drama, Comedy
Released: 2020
Cast: Michaela Coel

Michaela Coel's era-defining drama-comedy follows Arabella, a young London writer piecing together the night she was drugged and raped, and the friends orbiting her who are just as tangled up in consent, desire and self-deception. It swerves from farce to horror to tenderness within a single scene. Formally daring and morally exacting — not comfort viewing, but essential.

TVMaze rating

6.1

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