Film

The Twelve Dates of Christmas

Name: The Twelve Dates of Christmas
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Cast: Ian Harding, Lucy Hale, Greer Grammer, Kahyun Kim, Demetrius Shipp Jr.

Romantic comedy
Light-hearted

A romantic comedy built on a dating premise: a career-focused shop owner commits to going on twelve dates across twelve weeks before Christmas, hunting for the right person. Lightweight, festive, and built for the exact moment when you want something warm and undemanding. Perfect if you're in the headspace for traditional romantic comedy beats without complications.

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Just Wright2010

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