Film

Romance

Name: Romance
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 1999
Cast: Caroline Ducey, Sagamore Stévenin, François Berléand, Rocco Siffredi, Reza Habouhossein

Drama
Very dark

Catherine Breillat's provocative 1999 debut is a radical examination of female desire, using explicit sex as unflinching narrative language rather than titillation. It's unsettling, ambitious, and genuinely difficult—a film that refuses to soften its subject or apologize for looking directly at it. For viewers willing to sit with discomfort.

TMDb rating

2.7

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