Film

Prelude to a Kiss

Name: Prelude to a Kiss
Genre: Drama, Comedy, Romance
Released: 1992
Cast: Alec Baldwin, Meg Ryan, Kathy Bates, Ned Beatty, Patty Duke

Paranormal romance

A romantic comedy-drama about a couple whose wedding day becomes the threshold to something stranger: a body-swap that forces them to reckon with identity, commitment, and what it means to really know another person. It's tender and peculiar, tonal whiplash in the best way, for anyone who likes love stories that aren't afraid to get weird.

TMDb rating

2.8

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