Film

My Dear Secretary

Name: My Dear Secretary
Genre: Drama, Romance, Comedy
Released: 1948
Cast: Laraine Day, Kirk Douglas, Keenan Wynn, Helen Walker, Rudy Vallee

Romantic comedy

A sharp young secretary takes a job with a famous novelist and discovers he's a charming disaster—immature, unreliable, selfish. What follows is a romantic comedy about two people who shouldn't work but do, wrapped in questions about ambition, fidelity, and whether love survives the collision with real life. Postwar Hollywood at its most elegant and brittle.

TMDb rating

3.1

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