Film

In My Father's Den

Name: In My Father's Den
Genre: Drama, Mystery, Thriller
Released: 2004
Cast: Matthew Macfadyen, Emily Barclay, Miranda Otto, Colin Moy, Jimmy Keen

A war journalist returns to his small New Zealand hometown after his father's death, reconnecting with his fractured family. When a local girl vanishes, he becomes the prime suspect. This is a slow-burn mystery that trusts its audience—atmospheric, morally murky, and entirely concerned with how secrets corrode a place and the people in it.

TMDb rating

3.5

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