Film

Goodbye, Columbus

Name: Goodbye, Columbus
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 1969
Cast: Richard Benjamin, Ali MacGraw, Jack Klugman, Nan Martin, Michael Meyers

A sharp, uncomfortable comedy about class and desire within the Jewish-American experience. Neil, a working-class library assistant, falls for Brenda, a wealthy and willful woman from the suburbs. Their summer affair exposes irreconcilable differences between ambition and belonging, need and entitlement. It's both funny and genuinely sad, with an ending that stings.

TMDb rating

2.7

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