Film

God's Own Country

Name: God's Own Country
Genre: Romance, Drama
Released: 2017
Cast: Josh O'Connor, Alec Secăreanu, Gemma Jones, Ian Hart, Harry Lister Smith

A wordless, weather-beaten romance between a resentful young farmer and the Romanian labourer hired for lambing season. Andrew Haigh shoots the Yorkshire dales as something between beautiful and merciless, and lets desire arrive the way it actually does — through proximity, shared work, and the slow collapse of a man's defences. Tender, muddy, unsentimental. For anyone who likes love stories that earn their softness.

TMDb rating

7.7

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