Film

Eyimofe (This Is My Desire)

Name: Eyimofe (This Is My Desire)
Genre: Drama
Released: 2021
Cast: Jude Akuwudike, Temi Ami-Williams, Tomiwa Edun, Cynthia Ebijie, Jacob Alexander

Social drama
Slow-burning

Eyimofe follows two strangers in Lagos—a factory worker and a hairdresser—each quietly plotting their escape to Europe. Director Arie and Chuko Esiri craft a patient, deeply observed portrait of aspiration and small daily humiliations, told with visual poetry and almost no dialogue. It's for anyone who values mood and character over plot, and who recognizes migration as both dream and desperation.

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Nocturama2016

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