Film

City Slickers

Three middle-aged New York men escape their comfortable, suffocating lives for a cattle drive vacation. What starts as a midlife-crisis joke becomes genuinely moving—a film about male friendship, mortality, and the specific panic of feeling like you've already peaked. It's funny without being cynical, sincere without losing the laughs.

TMDb rating3.2

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy buddy comedies where the jokes grow out of middle-aged men stumbling into a life they never planned, with warmth underneath the gags, much like the mid-century city comedies that love their lead characters.

Skip it if you want sharp, fast-moving laughs throughout, since the film spends a good stretch on slower scenes of cowboy routine and rambling talk before it finds its rhythm.

What it asks of you: It runs close to two hours at a easy amble, so it rewards patience with its scenery and banter rather than demanding close attention to plot.

If you liked this

Planes, Trains and Automobiles1987

Two mismatched men forced together on a journey discover genuine connection beneath the bickering. Steve Martin and John Candy have the same chemistry as Crystal and Stern—comedy that earns its heart.

But It's darker and sadder than City Slickers, with tonal whiplash that doesn't always land. The sentimentality creeps up on you whether you're ready or not.

Planes, Trains and Automobiles poster

Diner1982

Four guys in their thirties, facing adulthood, using jokes as armor. It captures male friendship with precision—the rituals, the deflection, the unspoken loyalty. No plot, just brilliant observation.

But It's deliberately shapeless and slow. If you want something to happen, this will feel like overhearing people at a diner for two hours.

Diner poster

The Big Chill1983

Old friends reunite after years apart and confront who they've become. Karen Allen, Jeff Goldblum, and the ensemble cast nail the specific ache of nostalgia and compromise.

But It's a bit soft and boomer-coded now. The searching-for-meaning stuff can feel dated, and the party-movie vibe masks some real emptiness.

The Big Chill poster

Not sure tonight? Get a pick in a minute, starting from City Slickers

The wildcard

Something you would not have found on your own.

The Poseidon Adventure1972

Both films about men (and women) discovering resilience and genuine connection through adventure, rather than the comfort they expected to find.

A grand-scale disaster film where a group of strangers must rely on each other to survive. It has the same DNA as City Slickers—ordinary people discovering they're stronger than they thought, bonded by necessity and proximity.

But It's an old-fashioned disaster film with dated effects and melodrama. If you don't have patience for 1970s spectacle and earnestness, it'll feel like a museum piece.

The Poseidon Adventure poster
More like this (8)

Ghostbusters II1989

Three of the same guys, older and wearier, getting back together because they have to. It's looser and sadder than the first film—more interesting, honestly, about middle age and reluctant heroism.

But It's messier and less funny than the original. The plot is thinner. Many people actively prefer Ghostbusters and see this as unnecessary.

Ghostbusters II poster

Stand by Me1986

Four boys on the edge of growing up; a meditation on friendship, change, and the moment before everything gets complicated. Beautifully shot, genuinely moving, funny in the right places.

But It's pitched toward nostalgia that only works if you're old enough to feel it. The film is also quiet, and the stakes are internal rather than external.

Stand by Me poster

Murphy's Romance1985

James Garner and Sally Field play people rebuilding after disappointment. It's warm, funny, and genuinely romantic—a film about adults that respects the difficulty of starting over.

But It's very gentle and very eighties. If you want edge or urgency, this will feel like a long commercial for contentment.

Murphy's Romance poster

Silverado1985

A rousing, unpretentious Western about a gang of misfits. Kevin Kline and Scott Glenn together are pure fun. It remembers that the genre can just be entertaining.

But It has almost no thematic depth and the plotting is predictable. It's a film that's content to be just a really good time, which some find empty.

Silverado poster

A League of Their Own1992

Tom Hanks, Madonna, and an ensemble find themselves in an unexpected situation that forces them to reassess their lives. It's funny, warm, and genuinely about the bonds between people who didn't expect to matter to each other.

But It's more interested in character than baseball. The sports scenes are secondary, and if you want a sports film, you'll be disappointed.

A League of Their Own poster

Swingers1996

Young men in Los Angeles trying to figure out adulthood, using humor as a survival tactic. Vince Vaughn and Jon Favreau capture the specific paralysis of being lost, even surrounded by friends.

But It's poisonous about women and relationships in ways that feel uncomfortable now. The lead character is kind of a mess who barely learns anything.

Swingers poster

Lonesome Dove

The cattle drive is literal here rather than metaphorical, but both explore aging men confronting mortality and the life they've actually lived versus the one they imagined.

A six-hour Western miniseries about aging Texas Rangers on one last cattle drive. Robert Duvall and Tommy Lee Jones anchor something genuinely epic—funny, brutal, heartbreaking, and absolutely committed to its characters.

But It's very long and very slow-paced. It also features real violence and death in a way City Slickers never touches. Some find it a difficult watch.

Lost in Translation2003

Both examine the specific ache of midlife—the sense that you've become someone you didn't plan to be—and suggest that connection with others, however brief, might be the only cure.

Two strangers adrift in Tokyo find unexpected companionship in silence and conversation. It's about middle age, disconnection, and the way someone else can briefly make you feel less alone. Quiet, funny, unutterably sad.

But It's minimalist and plotless. Bill Murray's middle-aged melancholy might feel too real and depressing. Watching it feels like a commitment to mood rather than story.

Lost in Translation poster

People

Cast

Directing

Writing

Production

Recommended by