Film

Tie Me Up! Tie Me Down!

Name: Tie Me Up! Tie Me Down!
Genre: Comedy, Romance, Drama
Released: 1990
Cast: Victoria Abril, Antonio Banderas, Loles León, Julieta Serrano, María Barranco

Pedro Almodóvar's audacious 1990 romantic comedy-drama about a psychiatric patient who kidnaps an actress, intending to make her fall in love with him. It's chaotic, sexually frank, darkly funny, and genuinely moving—a film that asks uncomfortable questions about desire and agency while remaining oddly tender. Essential viewing for anyone interested in provocative European cinema or Almodóvar's singular voice.

TMDb rating

3.4

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