Film

The Christmas List

Name: The Christmas List
Genre: Comedy, Romance, TV Movie
Released: 1997
Cast: Mimi Rogers, Stella Stevens, Rob Stewart, Enuka Okuma, Bill Switzer

Romantic comedy
Light-hearted

A 1997 TV movie about a woman whose Christmas wish list mysteriously starts coming true—though rarely in the ways she imagined. It's a gentle romantic comedy that trades cynicism for earnestness, built on the premise that what we think we want and what we actually need are often completely different things. Comfort viewing for people who like their holiday stories sincere.

TMDb rating

3.2

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