Film

Reuben, Reuben

Name: Reuben, Reuben
Genre: Drama, Comedy, Romance
Released: 1983
Cast: Tom Conti, Kelly McGillis, Roberts Blossom, Joel Fabiani, Cynthia Harris

Drama

A washed-up Scottish poet, perpetually drunk and creatively barren, finds unexpected redemption through connection with a vibrant younger woman. It's tender and funny without being sentimental, anchored by Tom Conti's lived-in performance. For anyone who loves character-driven stories about second chances and the wreckage of talent.

TMDb rating

3.2

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