Film

O Kadhal Kanmani

Name: O Kadhal Kanmani
Genre: Romance, Drama
Released: 2015
Cast: Dulquer Salmaan, Nithya Menen, Prakash Raj, Leela Samson, Vinodhini Vaidyanathan

A Tamil romantic drama about two young people who commit to a relationship without marriage, only to discover their feelings complicate the neat arrangement they've made. It's tender and funny, anchored by genuine chemistry and the messy reality of what we think we want versus what we actually need. For anyone who's ever tried to logic their way out of love.

TMDb rating

3.5

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