Film

I Will Follow

Name: I Will Follow
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2010
Cast: Salli Richardson-Whitfield, Tracie Thoms, Omari Hardwick, Dijon Talton, Michole Briana White

Drama

A seventy-six-minute chamber piece about grief, set in a single apartment across one day. Maye has just lost her partner; twelve visitors arrive, each bringing different forms of comfort, collision, memory, and love. It's a film about how we survive loss through the presence of others—intimate, conversational, sometimes funny, often tender. For anyone who's sat in a room with people after someone died.

TMDb rating

2.4

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you want a quiet, unhurried drama where small conversations carry the emotional weight, and you're content with a story that moves by feeling more than by plot.

Skip it if you need brisk momentum or a clear through-line, because this is patient and loose, built from encounters rather than a building arc, and its gentleness can feel slight.

What it asks of you: Its shape is a single day and a run of visits, so you settle into stillness and let grief sit in the room without any push toward resolution.

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