Film

Humpday

Name: Humpday
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 2009
Cast: Mark Duplass, Joshua Leonard, Alycia Delmore, Lynn Shelton, Trina Willard

Comedy
Strange

A deceptively intimate comedy about marriage, male friendship, and the gap between fantasy and consequence. Two straight men, reunited after years apart, drunkenly agree to make an explicit film together. What sounds like a lark becomes a genuine reckoning with desire, fidelity, and what we're really asking when we ask our oldest friends to follow us into the dark.

TMDb rating

2.7

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